For the single folk, dating ain’t what it used to be. It’s not uncommon for a lady on the dating scene to have a roster of men she’s currently seeing. And, sure, it’s nice to constantly have a backup if things go wrong with one (an insurance for getting your rocks off), and endless dates to look forward to, but juggling multiple men isn’t an easy feat. Here are tips on how to get away with getting your way in the “meet” market…
Store His Full Name In Your Phone
Nothing’s worse than accidentally texting or sexting the wrong person to plan a booty call or a date and later realizing it was the other Jason.
Find Hidden Gems As Venues For Your Dates
You’ll look like you’re hip and know the best finds of your city, when really you’re covering your pilates-toned-tush to make sure you don’t run into everyone else in the city you’re getting down with.
Take Note
Make notes on the conversation topics and locations of your dates so you don’t confuse stories you have told – and to whom. And be an A+ student by studying said notes en route to your next date to avoid any fuck-ups.
Use Pet Names
Stick to something simple like babe or doll (a la Kardashians), that way you don’t accidentally say the wrong name on a date or in an in-the-moment moment (if you get what we’re saying). Alcohol confuses things so make sure you have a general pet name for all the gents.
Don’t Check-In On Social Media
There’s nothing like one of the guys you’re dating seeing where you checked in on Facebook to show up, surprise you, and catch you with more than food being taken down your throat while you’re on another date.
Take One Of Each
Dating can help you learn more about yourself and what it is you want. Make an effort to date many different ‘types’ of men and date outside of your typical comfort zone. The more variety the merrier!
Be Aware Of Your Favourites
There will always, always be a forerunner in the pack – the one guy you like the most. Be aware of this, but if he isn’t relationship material you need to ditch him quickly or else you may pass over someone wonderful… which you will regret later.
Keep Quiet
Never mention to any of your suitors that you have other men on the go. Unless, of course, they ask, and then you probably need to be honest and prepare yourself for the exclusive talk. Fun = over.
Build The Mystery
Try to put off sex for as long as possible with everyone, until you know who is worth giving it up for. This will make you feel like less of a hoe as you bask in the glow of all the male attention… and leave them wanting more!
What are some of your tips and tricks on how to juggle multiple men? Let us know in the comments below or tweet us @ViewTheVibe.