If you have to remove your shades to get a better look at a guy on the beach, and furthermore, keep them off so you can eat up the eye candy, chances are you’ve got it bad. But there’s no need to fake drown or ask him to oil you up with tanning lotion to try to get his attention. Instead, I offer you a few tips on how to swoon a beach bum…
Is he surfing? Serving? Ask him for a lesson on whatever activity he’s doing. If playing volleyball, he can give you some pointers and you can show him your skills by engaging in a game or challenge with him.
This is self-explanatory, non? A beach is a place where people go to unwind, relax, and soak up the sun. A beach is not a place for drama. Show him your calm, cool, collected side by just basking in the moment. If you’re a bookworm, bring a hot, new beach read with a fun cover and title. If you want to strike up a convo you can always talk about the book you’re reading, or if there are any sexy parts, you can read them to him or put your finger on the dirty lines for him to read over your shoulder.
Be Game For Anything
The beach bum is a carefree kind of guy. This type is attracted to someone that is low maintenance and good company. A way to stick out from other bikini-clad girls that may be vying for his attention is by being game for anything and open-minded when he asks you to join him in whatever it is he wants to do on the beach. I’m not saying you have to skinny-dip with him – though I am saying it could be fun.
Superficial though some might be, you can’t just snap your fingers to have a rocking bod to catch a gent’s attention. But you can have confidence. Wear bikinis or beach covers that make you feel comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is a woman’s best accessory. The energy you put out is contagious, so dress for yourself in what makes you feel great, and other people will soak that up in turn.
What are your tips and tricks on how to swoon a beach bum? Let us know in the comments below or tweet us @ViewTheVibe.