Thanks to many A-list actresses, it is no longer frowned upon for ladies to land a younger dude. Sure, some might joke around and call you a cougar, or worse, a cradle robber. But let’s face it: What lady wouldn’t want to land a younger gent to keep her on her toes?
Here are surefire ways on how to swoon a younger guy…
Take The Lead
Interested in a younger guy? Take the lead. Don’t sit around giving him ‘the eyes’ in hopes that he’ll get the message. Instead, take initiative by approaching him and flip the script by taking the role of the man, so to speak. A guy may think you’re out of his league, or not interested, so by making your intentions known and creating contact from the get-go you’re giving him much-needed reassurance.
Don’t think that just because someone is younger than you that you have to be vapid or act younger. Be yourself. By not dumbing down, you are showing him that it’s not a big deal that you’re older. This displays that you’re a real person and are in no way belittling him. He’ll appreciate that you’re not trying to pretend to be someone you’re not just because of your age gap. This goes with dressing your age, too, once you land a date with the dude.
Make your intentions with him known. If you’re looking for a relationship, don’t be concerned about coming off as too aggressive. The clearer you are, the more he’ll respect you. Again, it’s not so much about age as it is about treating the situation for what it is. Whether you’re looking for fun or more, be clear so he knows how to manage his expectations.
A benefit for younger guys is that you get to open the doors to places, people, parties, and situations that they wouldn’t normally see themselves at their age. Include them in some of the stuff you have on the go to keep up the allure. Unlike an older guy or a guy your age, the younger guy is eager to please and excited to be a part of unique events and situations he isn’t familiar with. Show him what you got, girl!